The Backdoor Chronicles: A Night with Mr. Big
Hey pleasure seekers…
So, I saw ‘Mr. Big’ again... and this time, I finally mustered up the courage to let him into my—ahem—back door!
Now, this wasn’t my first rodeo—far from it. But let’s just say my past experiences were with, well, more manageable partners. And considering Mr. Big is packing a solid 9 inches at full mast, I knew this was going to be a little different.
As I mentioned in my last post, the key to anal play is preparation. And knowing I was going to see him, I made sure I was ready—just in case (because hey, why not be prepared for all possibilities, right?). With someone as well-endowed as him, there was no way this was just going to happen without a little prep.
The Prep Work
Before seeing him, I:
Showered and freshened up (because hygiene is sexy)
Did a quick douche (optional, but it makes me feel more confident)
Spent a little extra time warming up with one of my toys (because let’s be real—a little pre-stretching was required)
The Main Event
When things got heated, we started with the usual—kissing, touching and some good ol’ vaginal sex. But when it was time to shift gears, Mr. Big didn’t just barge in like he owned the place.
Instead, he:
Used plenty of lube (non-negotiable!)
Started with a finger (hello, warm-up round!)
Massaged the tip in slowly, letting me adjust at my own pace
And most importantly? He paid attention to me.
He let me take the lead, never rushed, never pushed. It was all about what felt good for me, easing in bit by bit until we found a rhythm that worked. Add in some clitoral stimulation? Chef’s kiss. I felt safe. I felt comfortable. I felt fucking great.
The Aftermath
Afterward, we grabbed dinner, watched a movie and cuddled in bed—reminding me that post-sex intimacy can be just as important as the act itself. (Sometimes, the little things make all the difference.)
Final Thoughts
If you’re thinking about exploring anal play, remember:
Preparation is key – Take your time and use toys to ease in (You can view the toy range at AdultShop)
Lube is your best friend – Seriously, it’s non-negotiable
Go slow and communicate – The best sexual partners listen to your body
Make it pleasurable – Adding clitoral stimulation can make a huge difference
Comfort is key – The best experiences happen when you feel safe and in control
So, was this my first time? Nope. But was it my first time with someone this big? Yes—and in this instance, size definitely did matter.
At the end of the day, sex—no matter the kind—should be enjoyable for you. When done right, anal play can be an exciting, pleasurable experience, but only when you’re comfortable and with a sexual partner who respects your pace and boundaries.
So to all my fellow curious minds—take it slow, have fun, and always, always use lube.
Until next time, pleasure seekers… x
Disclaimer: The content on this account is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as professional advice. Every individual’s journey of self-love, sensuality and intimacy is unique. Always prioritise consent, respect personal boundaries and engage in practices that align with your comfort, values and well-being.